I personally get tired of the church’s daunting focus on sex. If the truth be told, we all know that the majority of christians lose the abstinence battle…THE MAJORITY. What makes me sick and tired of the “weight on the wait” for marriage is when a married preacher prophesies to single women that some knight in shining armor will show up on their door step full of the holy ghost, date them, and ask no physical involvement with them at all then without fail will escort them to the throne of sanctified, sexual communion known as marriage. All of this if they just deny their sexual self. It is a myth.
Any young woman with half a brain can observe that the number of women in the church versus the number of available, quality men in the church is at a very disappointing, bleak imbalance. The fear of never getting that spiritual, God-fearing, man has settled into the minds and hearts of single women (especially black women) and they are finding themselves sexually frustrated, spiritually exhausted, and mentally confused as they attempt to answer the age old question, “Why Am I Still Struggling With Sexual Desires?”
Well, unless somebody knows more than I do, this struggle ain’t ending! You can jump up spin around seven times and declare that you’ve spun out of it; take three steps forward and declare that you’ve stepped over it; you can even have a floor ministry after your preacher lays hands, but you will get up with the same emotions…the same feelings about sex. God gave you sexual urges and you had better not pray that He takes them away…you gonna need it back later on and you know how God can sometimes delay answering prayer! lol
But on the real, is there a magical age when having sexual urges no longer throws a saved person into defilement? Is there a holy way of dealing with the fire of desire? I need some real, saved folk to blog true answers about how they are “coping while hoping” to finally be able to engage in sensual praise instead sexual craze.
